Friends with God

By Peter Crause

 

Mark 3:14 And he ordained twelve, that they should be with him, and that he might send them forth to preach,

 

We tend to be so servile and activity minded that we often miss the most important part of our relationship with the Lord Jesus and our God. Consider the incident when Jesus visited the home of Martha and her sister Mary. Martha was hustling and bustling with activity, while Mary sat at Jesus feet and listened to Him. Of course Martha got a little upset – she was busy and Mary was “lazing about” – doing nothing – or so it seemed. Martha asked Jesus to tell Mary to help her. The response of the Lord Jesus is very revealing to our meditation:

 

Luke 10:41-42 And Jesus answered and said to her, Martha, Martha, you are concerned and troubled about many things: But one thing is needful: and Mary has chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her.

 

What had Mary chosen that Martha was too busy to enjoy? Jesus said it was “that good part” – meaning what? Was sitting idle good? Was shirking her responsibility to assist in serving good? Surely service is the apex of our interaction with the Lord; and Martha was rising to the occasion grandly? Note that Jesus did not reproach Martha for her service; but said that she lacked “one needful thing” – and Mary had it!

 

Our scripture reference in Mark’s Gospel sets it out in the sequence our interaction with God aught to be:

 

-         To be with Him; have a “friend to friend” relationship first and foremost. Jesus as a man needed friends first before they became His neophyte preachers. We sometimes get so taken up with the Deity of Christ – and this should never be minimized in its importance – but tend to forget the humanity of Jesus. We know and believe Jesus is God; but tend to overlook the fact He is a person – with feelings and desires. So Jesus chose twelve men to be associates and friends; people He could interact with; share meals with; talk to one on one; teach; love; share His heart with; trust!

-         That He might send them out to preach – secondarily! Unless we know Jesus as a friend, we cannot introduce Him to others. We need to dispense with the “religiosity” that so frequently marks the life of the Lord’s servants. Be friendly and introduce your best friend to the world.

 

What had Mary chosen? She chose to be with and honor Jesus; to sit at His feet and be a friend. This was the best part; this was what Martha lacked.

 

However, before God became a man, He also sought and had friends:

 

James 2:23 and the scripture was fulfilled which says, Abraham believed God, and it was imputed unto him for righteousness: and he was called the Friend of God.

 

Abraham was God’s friend. The scripture record shows talking and discussing things of mutual interest between God and Abraham – things friends do. What an honor – to be called the friend of God. They were friends who trusted and believed in each other; friends who could talk freely to each other; friends who held no secrets from each other.

 

Do you think God still wants friends? I believe Jesus expressed fully what God was and is like. He displayed fully what God desires. God demonstrated it in Eden when He came daily to “commune” with Adam and Eve. Fellowship; is what it is called – relationship of friends.

 

Dear ones, this “friendship” with our Lord must never degenerate into disrespect or casual relationship. Our God is a jealous God; a consuming fire; demanding our all. He must ever be the first in our lives. His word must take precedence over all other reading we do. There is great joy and blessing in this. Remember He is our Lord and God – yet desires a “friendship” with us.

 

John 15:14-15 you are my friends, if you do whatsoever I command you.

Henceforth I no longer call you servants; for the servant doesn’t know what his lord does: but I have called you friends; for all things that I have heard of my Father I have made known unto you.

 

What an honor it is that God in Christ Jesus would want us as His friends!

 

Pro 18:24 a man that has friends must himself be friendly: and there is a friend that sticks closer than a brother.

 

We have such a friend dear ones. He will never become “unfriendly” towards us. He is ever seeking out our company. “Where two or three are gathered together in my Name, there am I.”

 

Be a “Mary” today. Don’t dispense with your service to Him by any means; but choose “the best part” first.

 

Sitting at the feet of Jesus,
Oh, what words I hear Him say!

 Happy place! so near, so precious!

May it find me there each day.

Sitting at the feet of Jesus,

I would look upon the past;

For His love has been so gracious,

It has won my heart at last.

 

Sitting at the feet of Jesus,
Where can mortal be more blest?

There I lay my sins and sorrows

And, when weary, find sweet rest.

Sitting at the feet of Jesus,

There I love to weep and pray,

While I from His fullness gather

Grace and comfort every day.